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Welcome to Unspeakable, a true crime podcast. Or I tell
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stories of real crimes with real victims whose cases are
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so shocking that many are left wondering how is this
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even real? I use my experiences in law enforcement corrections,
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and combined with my years as a criminal justice educator,
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dig deep into complex cases of evil acts, some so
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evil many feel they are unspeakable. Warning Unspeakable as intended
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for mature audiences. If you are easily offended, then I'm
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not your girl. Listening discretion is advised. Hey y'all, kJ
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you're back with an episode of Unspeakable? Are you good?
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Are you okay? Because I know we had to go
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four episodes in the last series, I'm gonna do you
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a solid today, and while I really wanted this one
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to be two episodes because there was so much going on,
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I get you a solid and we're just gonna have
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a longer episode today so that I don't break it
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up into two, and I trimmed it down a little
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bit to where you don't you can have the whole
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thing in one sitting. You earned that. You earned that
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after a following with me on the last series. So
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before I get started, I do have some shout outs
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that I want to do, and we are going to
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go to Crawford, Texas, where Amy Derek is. Hey, Amy,
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how are you doing over there? I hope you're having
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a wonderful week, and I hope that you can see
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me waving on the camera. You're watching me podcast right now,
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and I'm just glad to have you. I'm thankful for you,
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and I appreciate your support of my show. It means
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everything as as always, so thank you so much. And
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then we're gonna go to Saint John, Indiana, where Mitzi
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Berdanici lives. Well, hello, Mitzi, how are you? Why went
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over there? What a precious name. By the way, Mitzi
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is so precious. I love that. And I am just
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over the moon again that you think enough of me
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to support the show and to join. So I'm waving
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at you on camera. I'm so thankful for you. And
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let's jump into this week's episode. So we are going
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to go to New Jersey for this one, and I've
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actually been there, believe it or not. I love taking
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in the sights. I know that there's lots of claim
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to fame for New Jersey, but the strangest one that
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I would have to say is that New Jersey is
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the only state if you didn't know this with an
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official monster. Yeah, you heard me right. Most states have
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a state bird or a state flower, but New Jersey said,
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holding my bear, and they got them a whole last monster.
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So the description of this was the creature had a
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head of a horse, the torso of a man, the
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feet of a goat, leathery bat like wings, and a
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long serpentine tail. And that's of course according to the legend.
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What is the name of the New Jersey's monster, Well,
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it's the Jersey Devil. So hey, the more you know,
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and to this day, sightings of the beast are still
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reported online if you look that up. So according to
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the story, you know it goes back two hundred and
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fifty years. The Jersey Devil was the thirteenth child of
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Jane Leeds who lived at the edge of a swamp
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along the Mullica River, and she wished for a devil,
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according to the story, and she got one. So you
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can ponder that whole thing while I get on to
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a more credible chain of events that will have you
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believing that monsters really might be real. So I was
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twenty fifteen when a large group of motorcycle enthusiasts were
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having a get together and this would bring about a
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first encounter between two people. There's nothing better than sparks
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flying with someone who shares your love of a hobby.
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What more do you want? You know, someone who's doing
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the same things that you love, and not to mention,
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you think they're pretty dad gumb attractive. Well, this motorcycle
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group you may have heard of, and I'm gonna ask you,
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does rough Riders sound familiar? Because admittedly my knowledge of
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Roughriders goes as deep as DMX is roughrider's anthem where
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I learned at a very young age to stop, drop,
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shut them down, and open up shop. Okay, I kid, obviously,
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but for real. The music video even opens up with
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some motorcycle stunts, if you remember that video from Back
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in the Gap. But I'm not a motorcycle gal, so
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I had to look up some stuff about these Rough
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Riders to get a feel for the vibe of the club,
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and what I found was that there are different chapters
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of these New Jersey clubs. Although this club is global,
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so whether you're remember from Jersey City, Burlington, Middlesex County,
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they all seem to function the same way county to county,
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and so this group is rooted in what they say
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is unity, hip hop culture and a community of service.
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So those lyrics of the rough Rider anthem differ quite
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I'll say slightly, but it's quite a big difference from
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that professional, goal oriented statement I just gave you. But
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you get the point, okay. Well. Tyrita Julius was a
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woman who loved being in that mix. Back in twenty
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fifteen and the Middle Sex chapter of the rough Riders
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was a really small one. It only had about ten
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members in this group. But the thing was when they
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would go have their meetups. Not everyone who went to
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their bike nights for the group were actually rids. Tyreta
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had ridden a bike briefly, but that was no longer
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her thing. I did look at some pictures and it
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was like crotch rockets, you know. These weren't big Harley's
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or anything like that. But even though she wasn't riding anymore,
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she bonded with other women from the group as they
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got to know one another at these bike nights and
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everyone knew that TGI Fridays in London was the spot
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to be at for a good time, and one of
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the best friends from the group was a woman named Jennifer.
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So Jennifer saw in Tyrito what I guess everyone else
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did for sure, a fun, outgoing, joyful, and compassionate woman
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who just made people feel at home and cared for
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from the jump, and the two women after they met,
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would remain best friends for years. They were always together
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and they attended events and family functions with one another,
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always having fun, enjoying each other's company, and just really
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being what you would want from a best friend. So
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a little more about Tyrita real quick. She wasn't married,
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but she was the proud mother of two children. Years prior,
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she had met a man his name was Jamar, who
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she instantly had become very smitten with. Something about his
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chill and relaxed demeanor was very attractive to her, and
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Jamar really acted as a calm present in her busy,
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busy life, and he kept her grounded. So it wasn't
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long before they moved in, and although they never spoke
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of marriage, it was clear that they were devoted to
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one another and that they were going to build a
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life together, and that life they were building together would
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soon be more like growing together because a year into
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their relationship they were expecting a baby boy, and Dante
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would make his little appearance to this world nine months later,
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and was such a handsome little fella. That bond between
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mother and son was instantaneous. His perfect eyes and his
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little nose and those tee tiny little toes. What a
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perfect little gentleman she had just delivered into this world.
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She was in love. They were absolutely in love. And
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just a short time later, those two pink lines would
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show up again, but this time a little more heavy
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on the pink, because Tyrita was getting her little girl. Ah,
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you know, the excitement of having one of each. Just
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how exciting is that I have my boy and now
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I'm gonna get my girl? And when little miss Mayham
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made her entrance into the world, she was just as
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beautiful as Tyreta imagined she would be, and she would
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be named Chanelle for that very reason. Beautiful but also
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really expensive. Right, So this was literal heaven on earth,
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and Tyrita couldn't have loved her babies anymore than she did.
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I mean, it wasn't possible. And while Tyrita was head
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over heels for her children, Jamar was showing himself to
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be less than enthused about it, and the truth be told,
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maybe that's why he never popped the question, because he
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really was not built for this fatherhood gig. And while
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wildly heartbreaking, Tyreta realized that this wasn't what she wanted
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for her children and that they deserved better in life.
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And so did she. You know, she did a partner,
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not someone who just sat at the house with her
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and went to work and didn't want to be a
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part of things. The reality was that Tyreta's own father
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had been an absentee in her life and she did
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not want that for her children. Lucky for Tyreta, her
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own grandmother and her aunts and her uncles. They were
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there to fill the void when Tyrita was little, so
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she never went without. So with that in mind, Tyreta
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made the decision to end things with Jamar. She wasn't
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going to beg a man to love and care for
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her or her children. So her mentality was more of like, look,
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I'd rather do it my day, I'm self than to
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just have somebody be here who doesn't want to be here.
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And so that's just what she did for the next
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years to come. Her precious baby boy, Dante was now
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already attending college in twenty fifteen. His pesky little sister, Chanelle,
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she was fifteen now and she was in high school.
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So time had gone by and Tyreta was just handling business.
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She was being the mama that she knew she had
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to be. Time was flying, but they remained this tight,
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little knit family, all three of them living together as
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a small but happy family. So Tyreta decided to make
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her home close to her mama's. And by the way,
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her mama's name was Queen, so I'm gonna call her
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Miss Queen. So she made the house close to Miss
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Queen as well as other family members that lived close by,
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and it made being with family easy, which was something
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that Tyreta loved and wanted for her kids. Now more
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mature and certainly more confident in her ability to take
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care of herself and her kids alone, Tyreta was able
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to relax and she was enjoying her life. She was
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a very hard worker and she had made her career
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over the years as an administrative assistant at Rutgers University Hospital.
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Because of her consistency and her stability in life, she
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was financially independent. She was now having these bigger dreams
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of buying a large home where her mama could move
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in with her, and she could take care of her
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mama as she got older. Just family oriented. There's nothing
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stronger than the examples that Tyrita was giving us here.
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But until that dream was realized, Tyreta was buckled down
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and she was just doing her thing. She did casually
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date throughout the years after Jamar Okay, but nothing really stuck.
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She wanted someone who was in it for real, not
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just a good time, and her main focus was her children.
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They would always come first no matter what. But that's
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when something changed. In August of twenty fifteen, at a
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motorcycle event, Tyreta met a man by the name of
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Hassan Nicely. He was a member of another motorcycle club,
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but he was at this event and so they had
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that in common. As they talked throughout the evening, they
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just had a lot of interest in one another. The
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sparks were flying and they exchanged numbers, and very quickly
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thereafter they were pretty much a couple. A few months
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would pass and things were just going really, really well.
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They did things not only as a couple but also
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as a family, really very wholesome things, like they would
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go to basketball games together, they would go out to dinner.
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They really enjoyed being together. It was November twenty fourth
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when Dante had a college basketball game that he had
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been preparing hard for and he was stoked that all
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of his people were going to be at his game
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to see him shine. Mom, of course, little sister, and
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mister Hassan. Hopefully, he was going to have the best
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game of his life. He was going to make his
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mama and his sister proud, but also he was going
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to show mister Hassan exactly what he was made of
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on that court. So the plan was to leave around
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seven pm. They were going to ride together to get
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to the game. By they, I mean Tyrita and her
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mother were gonna ride and they would go meet up
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at the game. So Tyta was ready first, and she
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was gonna be the one driving. So she gathered her
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purse and grabbed her things, took one last look in
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the mirror to make sure she was looking good, and
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she walked out of the door to go get into
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the car. And so she was gonna get into the
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driver's seat, and so she yells out, come on Chanelle,
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we gotta go, and Chanelle yells back, just another second, Mama,
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I'm almost ready. So Chanelle was finishing up hopefully. Mama
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was like, cool, whatever, I'm gonna go out to the car.
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I'll cool it down and i'll wait for you there.
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So she walks outside, she gets in the car, and
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she's thinking to herself that girl better hurry up. We
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are gonna be late. And right as she thought those thoughts,
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little miss Chanelle came walking right out the house. Perfect.
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They were going to be on time. So Chanelle be
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bopped to the passenger side of the car, got in,
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shut the door, and just as Tyrita put the car
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in drive, ear piercing explosions, one after the other started