19 Day Devil Part One

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Welcome to Unspeakable, a true crime podcast where I tell stories of real crimes with real

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victims whose cases are so shocking that many are left wondering how is this even real?

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I use my experiences in law enforcement, corrections, and combine with my years as a criminal

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justice educator, dig deep into complex cases of evil acts, some so evil, many feel they

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are unspeakable.

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Warning, unspeakable is intended for mature audiences.

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Hey y'all, Kelly Jennings here, back for season 4.

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Can y'all believe we made it four seasons?

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Wait, isn't that a band?

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The four seasons?

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No, it's a hotel.

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It's a hotel.

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It's not a band?

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No.

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Four seasons is like, are we booming this?

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I don't know.

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I'm like sitting here talking to you.

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Keep it in.

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Keep it in.

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I'm to be seen, not heard.

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I'm the great, wonderful, aw.

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Okay, well no, we'll leave it in.

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I don't care.

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Hey y'all, Jimi, these in here with me, like shocker.

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Okay, well season 4 is here.

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I cannot believe it.

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If you would have told me this, like what, nine months ago when this started, I would have

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like, not believed you, but here we are making it happen.

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So welcome to season 4.

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If you're new and you haven't listened before, please go back to season 1 and kind of

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start there so you'll kind of catch the drift of how the show goes.

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But I'm so thankful that I have all of my listeners here.

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I even have some new patrons that I want to say, hey, too.

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So let me get started with Brandon Lloyd.

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Hi, Brandon.

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I know that I have mostly women for some reason.

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I think that's cool, but not a lot of the guys.

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So Brandon, I'm waving at you on camera.

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If you're watching, thank you so much for joining and becoming part of the team here.

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We've got Julie Kepitano.

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And I like that name.

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Kepitano.

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Sounds kind of gangster.

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Julie Kepitano.

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I like it.

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And this friend right here only gave me her first name.

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So Kaelin.

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Hey, Kaelin.

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You know which Kaelin you are because I'm giving you your shout out.

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So hey, Kaelin, thank you so much for joining.

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And then I've got Savannah Reese.

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Hey girl, I need to see where you all are from.

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I didn't even look before we got started.

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I've been busy.

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But wherever you're from, thank you so much for joining the Patreon.

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Patreon, I cannot do this without support of listeners.

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As most people know, I'm a teacher.

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This started out as a hobby and has just taken over my life in a wonderful way.

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So thank you for supporting me and for making this journey something that's just becoming

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just outside of my wildest dreams.

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Now before I get started with season four, episode one, I got to tell you all this.

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It's kind of funny.

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So I have a listener.

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Her name is Emily Fountainone.

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Emily, you know what's coming since I said I was going to tell the story.

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I had permission.

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But Emily lives in unis.

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Okay.

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That's a little place here in Louisiana.

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But her AirPods had died and so she had Bluetooth the show and she said that she was listening

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over the bows in the house.

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So it was really loud because she has a hard time here and she had it turned up.

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When she said next thing she knew, her husband comes flying over into the house.

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He had pulled up and he comes in ready to fight fisticuffs and he comes throwing through

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the door and he's all he could hear was this woman mid-rant and he's all huffing and

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puffed and who's here?

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Who's here?

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And comes running in the house just to find poor Emily right there just staring wide eyed

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and that's when he realized y'all it was me.

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It was my dumb ass.

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She had me turned up loud telling the story.

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I got mad about something and I was going off and he thought someone was in their house

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trying to beat up his poor wife.

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So they both busted out laughing.

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So look y'all if you need to use me as home security that's fine.

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When you leave your house just turn the radio up real loud and I'll bitch out anybody who

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comes in the house and maybe they'll run away.

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So anyway, hey Emily thanks for letting me know about that.

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I thought that was funny.

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I got a good chuckle out of it.

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All right now this case is a big one.

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It went down in my parish okay Livingston Parish.

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Now it's actually the case that I did my live on.

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So if you came to the live no worries because now that I'm in a controlled environment and

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I've got more information you know that I've written out to kind of keep me on track

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and make sure that I don't forget anything.

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There's still going to be things in this that you did not hear at the live.

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So no worries there but if you didn't get to come to my first ever live it was a wonderful

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experience.

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I was so excited to see everybody there.

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I think it did a pretty good job and I wanted to share this case in a recorded session because

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this is a big one and people need to know these people's names.

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And this episode is going to be called 19 Day Devil and this is going to be about the

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Dakota Terrio case.

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Now this case took place in 2018 the end of 2018 into early 2019 and it starts with a girl

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named Summer Ernest.

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Now Summer is 20 years old and Summer is living with her boyfriend.

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His name is Sean Scardina and Sean lives in the Hammond area which is about a 40 minute

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drive from where I am and he lives at home with his parents.

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Now Summer also lives with him at his parents house.

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Summer had, she was a strong, wild girl y'all and she had made a decision that she was moving

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out when she was younger and so she moved out and was trying to start her life with Sean

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and they lived at the parents house.

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Now as young relationships go, Sean's a great guy by the way I need to tell y'all that Sean

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is a wonderful fella.

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I had, in my research found nothing but good things to say about him.

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He came from a great family and this family really cared about Summer.

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They thought she was great but as you know it goes usually in young relationships the relationship

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really just seemed to have run its course.

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They had been dating for a couple of years.

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They were having a few disagreements and they decided maybe it's better if we just broke

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up and so they did.

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So Sean and Summer are going to break up and that's whenever Summer moves from Hammond

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back to Denom Springs, Louisiana.

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Now let's talk about that real quick.

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Summer's mother's name is Ronda and Ronda is a wonderful lady and she lives with her long

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time partner.

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His name is Kelvin and they live in a small trailer and they have between the two of them

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six kids including Summer.

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So when Summer moves out of Sean's home and she wants to come move back in with Mom there's

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really no room for them because it's a small trailer.

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There's only a four bedroom and so there's no room for her.

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There's five other boys living at home with Mom.

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So when she wants to move back she ends up having to call her daddy and she's like daddy

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I need help.

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I need you know I've got to move out and he says that's no problem baby girl.

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His name was Billy Ernest and Billy says no problem.

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I'll come help you and he drives right over there and helps pack up her things and says

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I'll help you move back home again she couldn't move in with Mom so that's whenever she asks

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her dad Billy daddy can I move in with you because I don't have anywhere else to go and

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he says sure no problem.

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So Summer and daddy Billy go on back to his trailer and she moves in with Billy along

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with his wife Casey which would be her stepmom.

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Now Billy and Casey do share two young children together.

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A seven year old named heaven and a one year old named Christopher.

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Now just a little background information I know there's a lot of characters they're not

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characters they're real people but there's a lot of players in this story and I'm going

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to do my best to kind of keep you one track but hang in there with me I think I'm going

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to be able to help you keep up with who everybody is but let me start here.

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Billy Ernest was married to Ronda Champagne.

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They were the parents of Summer Ernest right that just moved out of her boyfriend's home

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and then Summer also has two other siblings so one siblings name is Tanner Ernest and

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then there's a brother named Hunter Ernest okay and that was the Ernest family and like

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I just said Billy and Ronda were divorced.

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Billy had moved on and married a woman named Casey and Ronda had moved on and had it was

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in a long term relationship with her boyfriend Kylvin.

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So when Summer moves in with her dad Billy and in with stepmom Casey they have the two other

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children that are young seven year old heaven one year old Christopher.

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Now heaven was not actually biologically Billy's kid when Billy met Casey she was pregnant

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but that didn't change his mind about her they continued their relationship so when heaven

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was born Billy was actually the only dad that heaven ever knew she did not she was not raised

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by her biological father and then a little bit later one year old Christopher came along.

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Now in January of 2019 is whenever Summer moved in with dad and Casey.

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Now going back a little bit whenever Billy and Ronda were married they had a mutual friend

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named Jacob Chaston.

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Now Jacob was a family friend and they knew him you know knew him well and he had a sister

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her name was Tony she's not a huge player in this but when she passed away this would

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actually become an integral part of this story because whenever she passed away the funeral

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was held on January 7th 2019.

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Now on that day Billy decided that he was going to go attend the funeral and Summer his daughter

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decided that she would accompany him and they would go and pay their respects because

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again Jacob was their friend and that was his sister who passed away.

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Now this is one of those times where hindsight is going to be 2020 y'all and you're going

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to realize how the most innocent of moments will forever alter someone's future as well

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as their families.

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This is just the most innocent and purest of things that could happen.

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When they go to the funeral Summer would meet 21 year old Dakota Terrio.

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Now I want to tell you something if you remember the beginning I said I was naming this episode

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19 day devil.

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The reason I call it 19 day devil is because this entire episode from beginning to end will

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take place in 19 days.

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I need you to remember that because this is just absolutely incredible.

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And over the next 19 days after they met Summer and Dakota would start quote unquote I'll

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call it talking.

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Now what do I mean by talking?

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Hi hello you know I mean that's not what I'm talking about.

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They're talking you know they're they're not serious partners but they're interested in

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each other.

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They're kind of sniffing around for sure trying to figure out what each other is all about.

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Now you know hell the story took takes place over 19 days how serious could this relationship

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be you know.

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And the media really in my humble opinion got this one wrong if you ever look anything about

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this case up because they were always like oh the girlfriend and the boyfriend the girlfriend

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and the boyfriend y'all hell was 19 days.

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That doesn't count.

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This is just really kind of getting to know each other and I want you know that Dakota on

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based on everything that I researched was an absolute ass hat.

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Looking at him you don't see much all right he's a bony tall six foot seven inch 20 year old

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gutter mutt with scraggly hair if I'm being completely honest with you and he just looks

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like the typical punk ass teenager nonetheless.

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All right nothing I would write home about to be to be for sure but the thing about him you

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know he wears baggy clothes he kind of has a grungy edge if you wanted a description of

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him.

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And I think what might have attracted summer to him was that he was everything that Sean

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wasn't but I don't mean that in a nice way.

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Sean was a good guy.

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He had a good family and Dakota just was the polar opposite and from everything I've

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ever researched my gut tells me that she was attracted to him because he was that bad boy

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that young girls always we always seem to come across him in our 20s right there just worthless.

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And this was going to be her biggest mistake she'll ever make is that she is interested

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in him.

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Now I want to give you a little backstory about him before I go forward with summer and

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Dakota.

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Dakota had actually been married before he's 21 when I'm telling you this story but let's

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go back to when they were about 18 years old.

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He actually was married to a girl and her name was Kim.

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Kim Patman.

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Now this marriage did not last long but it did explain a lot to me as far as the details

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go surrounding their marriage but about what kind of person he was and gave me a lot of

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insight to behaviors or red flags I guess about him.

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So where did Kim and Dakota meet?

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Well Kim and Dakota met at what's called YCP and if you're not familiar with this or you

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don't have it been around the school system much this is called the Youth Challenge Program

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and this was really my red flag to start with amongst a billion others with Dakota.

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Now I want to start out here.

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I know people that have attended the Youth Challenge Program and I'm not going to down

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anyone that has been there but I will tell you that kids that tend to go to these Youth

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Challenge programs are usually kids that are a little bit troubled.

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They're having trouble getting their life together maybe they have trouble with authority

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but their education is not going the traditional path they're struggling and he went to that

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program because he was big time struggling okay.

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Now he was a victim of his own decisions but he was struggling.

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Now what caused Dakota to go to the YCP program or what was it that kind of tipped him over

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the edge?

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Well I'm glad you asked.

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Dakota was there because he spaced out in a ditch and everyone thought he was dead.

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In fact there was actually like rumors going around that Dakota had died because he was laid

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out in a ditch somewhere and it turns out when the police got there and found him he was

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actually ODN on that synthetic marijuana and he did actually end up living and this was

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just one of a billion other instances of him being a drug user and making a billion mistakes

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but he did actually go to rehab shortly thereafter this incident and believe it or not he

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did get sober.

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Kudos to you on that that will literally be probably the only nice thing I'll say about

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this piece of shit but good for you you got sober for a hot second there.

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So once he got sober that's whenever he entered the YCP program.

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Now a little bit about YCP.

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I did look up their website because I wanted to be practical when I gave you this information

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and not just be you know opinionated and the YCP website really kind of churches it up

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but this is the explanation that they give about their school program.

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The Louisiana National Guard Youth Challenge program is an alternative educational program

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which offers adolescents from the ages of 16 to 18 an opportunity to change their future.

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Students looking for a way to succeed outside of a traditional school setting learn self

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discipline, leadership and responsibility while working to obtain a high school equivalency

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diploma.

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And you know that's true that's their goal and I'm not saying that's not true but they

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have a huge road ahead of them when these kids show up because they lack a lot of discipline

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before they get there.

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And you know they lead active and retired military individuals who emphasize discipline

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and education and they call it a unique two-part program which teaches core academics,

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active skills and encourages young people from all walks of life to become productive and

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accomplished in their chosen field.

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And look for real kudos to these YCP programs because they're taking kids that may not be

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on a path to success and really trying to hammer home how important it is to have self discipline

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and to work through your problems.

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So Caminda Coda were 16, 17 years old whenever they met at this school and they're cadres

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sergeants and that's what they call them they're kind of like platoon leaders I guess but

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their cadres sergeants were married to each other and so that is why Caminda Coda ended

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up spending a lot of time together because their cadres spent a lot of time together.

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So they would become friends and they would eventually go to prom together right big step

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for a teenager let me ask somebody to the prom.

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And from there their relationship blossomed and they both graduated in December of 2014

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and would jump and get married almost a year later and they got married because Dakota

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had decided he was going to leave for the military.

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Now I want you to know that I did not get my information off of the internet about this.

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I actually did some internet sleuthing I found Cam a center of message and she agreed to

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speak with me so everything that I'm going to tell you came directly from Kim's mouth

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and you're not going to find this on the internet because I wanted to give you the real

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experiences that she went through.

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So when I spoke to Kim this is how she described Dakota she said that he was quote the best and

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worst times of her life.

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His problem she said was that at first he was really kind and sweet but that they got

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married and he would switch personality like night and day she said like that like the

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switch of a light that he his personality would just go from one extreme to the other she

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said he was romantic and sweet one minute but then extremely abusive and violent the next.

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So she really couldn't predict what was going to come out of his mouth or what he was going

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to do and she was honest and told me that their relationship was volatile and she knew it

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they were like gasoline and fire it just was not a good mix and because of this y'all

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their marriage only lasted five months I know shocker young people divorce who knew right

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but it's true and then they would split now like I said Dakota was everything that like

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a hood rat girl would want and that's why it was intriguing to me that summer was interested

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in him because summer was not that type of girl and y'all neither was Kim Kim just came

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from a different life she told me that she did not know her dad growing up and that she

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did have a step father who she didn't feel was the best towards her and so this is my own

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opinion but just from talking to her when she said that Dakota was sweet and kind and had

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treated her really well I kind of felt like again my own opinion I kind of felt like maybe

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Kim didn't really get good examples of what a man should be and therefore being treated

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right in her eyes maybe that wasn't the same example of what I would consider being treated

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right I don't know that but that's kind of what I felt whenever I would talk to her so y'all

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it just it went so so south in that relationship okay so let's talk about what I mean by abuse

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as far as Kim and and and Dakota are concerned so right after they got married this is like

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I told you where his behavior chain just became just absolutely erratic and she would actually

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find out around this time that Dakota's dad on his on his dad's side one of his aunts was

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a diagnosed schizophrenic and so she kind of poo pooed his behavior off as oh my god he

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must have mental illness this must be some kind of genetic thing that he that he picked up

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and she kind of let things slide that I don't think in normal circumstances not thinking

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that he had a mental problem that someone would have let slide not even come so the physical

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abuse she told me became regular and we're not talking about like just being pushed or you

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know maybe popped which again is totally inexcusable anyway but she's told me told me black eyes

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and bruises were absolutely the norm he would hurt her but again she wouldn't file the

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reports because of his mental health concerns and she worried oh my god if I send him to jail

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jail isn't going to solve his mental problems will y'all she's right okay jail is not the

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place to solve mental problems unfortunately in this country we keep running into this

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issue where people don't seek mental health treatment whether because they can't afford it

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or because they don't want to or they don't recognize that they need it and then it escalates

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to a point where the police can involve or where y'all police are not psychiatrist or not

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psychologist police come in to stop bad guys from doing bad things and unfortunately want

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someone with for example a mental illness starts hurting someone or pulling a gun on someone

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well then it's like society wants them to come in and tatad these people because they have

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a mental illness well that's not the job of the police the job is to come in and to take

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the weapon away and to save the life that's at risk well can recognize that and she's

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like oh my god do I want to send him to jail jail is not going to do anything but pissing

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him off further and they're not going to be able to treat any type of mental illness that

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he has and so she did what a lot of domestic violence victims do and I don't mean this in

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a negative way I mean this in a survival way they don't report it whether they're afraid

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of their attacker or whether they're worried they recognize that mental illness and they

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don't really know how to deal with it or what to do she's a young girl she's 18 19 years

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old at this point and she doesn't know how to deal with it she doesn't come from a family

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where there's a wealth of knowledge right about what to do here she doesn't know about resources

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and she doesn't have the money and so she just lets it slide well eventually she says

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okay well he may not be getting arrested for this but I'm not willing to do this anymore

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and she does file for divorce like I said five months in to the marriage now like any good

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Southern woman would do when it comes time for divorce you know what she did for him she gave

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him a ride they actually rode together to go get their divorce which was in a way kind of charming to me

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but she drove him there she said they got divorced and then they went out to eat afterwards

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and I'm laughing not because it's funny but because I can just see two young people trying to navigate

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the world and she doesn't know what to do so they ride together to get their divorce and then they

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go have lunch afterwards and she says look we remain friends I didn't hate him I just didn't want to be

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hurt anymore and that though would come to an extreme halt shortly thereafter so the date I'm talking

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about is actually the day a legend was born that legend being me ah ah August 15th that's my

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birthday Maliya y'all around but on August 15th of 2017 an incident would happen that would really

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change the trajectory of their friendship which would actually be that it ended um but I have this

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police report I let I pulled the actual report so that I could share it with you and I'm going to

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read her exact words from this report so it says um can you describe the incident to me and she wrote

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on August 4th around 2am my ex-husband Dakota Terrio woke me up by dragging me by my feet out of the

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bed he hit me in my mouth and my head several times which knocked out my front teeth so I want you

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to know real quick sidebar this isn't getting pushed around this is getting the absolute shit bead out

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of her he knocked her teeth out Dakota then took my phone and my car keys typical abuser situation

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take away the mode of travel if they can't get away then you can continue to beat on them and I

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want to remind you he is six foot seven inches tall keelm and I do have pictures of her and I'm not

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trying to put her on display here y'all she's an absolute victim here um but she's a little thing um

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she looks to weigh at the time maybe 110 pounds um she's probably based on these pictures I'm not

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I haven't stood next door she looks to be about five six five seven he's big boy you know he's a

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foot taller than her and he's beaten the shit out of her knocking her teeth out she's literally

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in survival mode right now I cannot imagine waking up from a dead sleep to have to be sucker punched

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in the face by an absolute animal who is stronger and bigger than you and you're just trying to live

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and then he takes away the one mode of transportation that you have she goes on Dakota then smashed my

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phone and tried to drive my car into an apartment building so she got into the car he jumps in with

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the keys and then is threatening to crash it into the apartment building eventually Dakota gave me

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my keys where I agreed I would not call the cops on him another move that the abuser's make I'll

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give you the keys back if you're not going to say a word about what's happening here mind you y'all

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her teeth are knocked out she has blood pouring from her mouth she's beat amongst the face the eyes

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the body and she's sitting there going I promise I won't call the cops on you like he's some kind of

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fucking victim here no sir before I was able to drive off Dakota twisted the mirrors off of my car

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later on that same day I went back to give Dakota a ride and right now if you're thinking why the hell

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would you do that please stop please stop if you have never been in a domestic violence situation I

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would so encourage you to research it hill I'll do a special if y'all want on domestic violence to

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explain to you the red flags what people go through because I'm not trying to trivialize what people

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who go through domestic violence go through what I'm trying to do is tell you there's almost a road

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map to it there's almost a road map to what happens and even though people have their own situations

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the domestic violence y'all it's so predictable because these abusers go through the same things they

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do the same things to these people and part of that is guilt trip part of that is brainwashing

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or scaring people into if I can't get this ride then I can't make the changes I need or I don't have

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a car because of x y and z so she agrees because I bet you in her mind she thinks if I don't help

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him nobody will to go give him a ride and then she goes on and she eventually would smash my windshield

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so he beats the hell out of her knocks her front teeth out and she told me just in passing she went

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home she was so scared before she went and picked him back up she actually didn't even notice her teeth

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were knocked out she got home and started spitting blood out and was sinking looked in the mirror

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notice her face was beat up and then when she goes to get him he rips the mirrors off of her car

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and smashes her windshield in and at that point she says I left him in a parking lot by sprint off of

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Loyola and West Esplanade and that's near New Orleans right or in New Orleans so she dumped his ass

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right even after she gave him a second chance after almost being killed by him she ended up having

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to leave him so let's talk about that young girl gives him the benefit of the doubt over and over again

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until she's tired of the abuse and then is still kind to him after she divorces him and then he

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still almost kills her and y'all this is not the first incident like I told you remember how I told

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you she wasn't reporting other incidences will check this out there's a whole bunch that she

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didn't mention to police but she was willing to mention to me so let me tell you a few things that

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she told me that happened that are not documented anywhere but I 100% believe her and if you don't by

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now after he knocked her teeth out and beat the hell out of her I don't know what I could else I could

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say to make you believe but she said one time they were driving and they pulled over for whatever

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reason somewhere and he choked her out completely with no warning just light switch changed

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choked her out completely out and I don't know if you know this you ought to look up your laws

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but I know for sure in the state of Louisiana that if you strangle someone to the point that you cut off

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air it escalates the charge so she stayed with him though because remember she felt sorry for him

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and his mental illness another time she told me that they were driving down the road

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and literally again light switch he was normal all of a sudden he took his foot and he threw it down

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on that gas pedal and floored it and would not let up now it started scaring her and she was going to

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code stop stop what are you doing stop pull over trying to get his attention and no matter what she did

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he could not or would not acknowledge her so she looks over him like what in the hell is going on

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and that's when she said he erupted in this unnatural laughing she said it was evil laughing like

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psychotic laughing and as he laughed the louder he laughed in the scarier he got he then jerked the

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wheel and took it onto a sidewalk and started wiping the sidewalk out thank god he didn't hit anybody

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until the car came to a stop eventually and they got out and whatever happened and then he decided

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just to go back to normal that's like creepy level 1000 but again she stayed with him but she

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noted another time she came home and heard him having a conversation in the back of the house so she

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goes back there to investigate what's going on and when she walks in guess who he's talking to

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nobody he's in a room having a full on conversation not mumbling to himself not talking to himself

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he is out loud having a conversation full on with breaks and everything for answers and no one is

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there and she is scared she is like what is going on so she goes over then she's like Dakota Dakota

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trying to get his attention and y'all he looks through her like with shark eyes and I call it shark

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eyes because I think you might know what I'm talking about when someone just has dead eyes and they're

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just looking and they're not acknowledging if she said it was he didn't see me like I wasn't there

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she said but then he randomly reached up with his hands and grabbed her face and started feeling

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her face but again kept talking to whoever he was talking to and never realized she was there

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and she knew in that moment that he something was wrong something was very wrong in his head

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so that's whenever remember he came became real violent and all of that and they have that attack

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and he beats the hell out of her and she doesn't uptaking him eventually after that and she drops

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him off at his parents house and says I'm done for good for good good I won't do this anymore

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so let's talk about that family dynamic real quick because it was absolutely positively a strained

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family dynamic so his father's name was Keith Terrio now I did speak to people about him and I can

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tell you I never met him and I'm gonna just tell you that I've never met the guy but from the people

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I spoke to this is what they told me about Keith he was known to beat his wife her name was Elizabeth

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she went by Lee so Dakota's dad was known to be abusive to the mom and based on other conversations

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that I had they told me that he loved to drink he started the day cracking a beer and he ended the day

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drinking he would drink from morning to dark and she this one person I was speaking to told me that

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he liked to smoke weed and that he 100% did not get along with Dakota his son okay and something

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that struck me is I'm like damn you not only can't get along in school you can't get along with

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people right of of any type of authority you buck the system you want to be a dope head

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you want to do all of these things you cannot even get along with the person who is biologically wired

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to love you you can't even get along with them Keith had almost disdain for his son because of the way

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that he acted but again I don't feel like Keith was an angel himself but he did not like his son he

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didn't get along with him now the mom Elizabeth who went by Lee Terry O I was told was a very kind woman

435
00:34:01,940 --> 00:34:11,220
the quote was amazingly kind and she loved her husband Keith they loved each other but she suffered

436
00:34:11,220 --> 00:34:18,580
abuse by him and was scared of him now again I almost you know I see this domestic violence type

437
00:34:18,580 --> 00:34:23,540
situation where you love someone but they hurt you and I'm sorry I just don't think love hurts

438
00:34:23,540 --> 00:34:27,540
I think that there might have been way more going on here than I'll ever know

439
00:34:27,540 --> 00:34:34,900
but she stayed by his side and something that was just terribly heartbreaking for me was that she

440
00:34:34,900 --> 00:34:41,060
loved her son Dakota okay and why would that be heartbreaking it was heartbreaking because she

441
00:34:41,060 --> 00:34:46,340
couldn't handle him I don't know you know where I come from my mama we call it snatch and not in your

442
00:34:46,340 --> 00:34:50,500
ass that's literally the term my mama's out snatch and not in your ass y'all I'm 40 years old she

443
00:34:50,500 --> 00:34:55,700
still says it to me if I get crazy don't get crazy with my mama a Southern mama will whip your ass

444
00:34:55,700 --> 00:35:00,580
if you're not from here learn it don't come down here talking up talking back and even if it's not

445
00:35:00,580 --> 00:35:05,620
your mama down here if it's your neighbor's mama she'll come get you too like don't play with people's

446
00:35:05,620 --> 00:35:12,100
mamas but she just couldn't handle him and she would actually try to intervene between Keith

447
00:35:12,100 --> 00:35:18,660
and Dakota because it would come to physical blows between the two matter of fact I might be

448
00:35:18,660 --> 00:35:24,580
getting ahead of myself here but how dangerous was their relationship they pulled knives on each other

449
00:35:24,580 --> 00:35:32,820
they pulled guns on each other okay so if you're kind of picking up on if you know if you're

450
00:35:32,820 --> 00:35:38,020
slipping on what I'm dripping here this dynamic was screwed okay they they this family dynamic was

451
00:35:38,020 --> 00:35:47,620
very off-kilter for what's a I guess a normal parent child um relationship and he just you know one

452
00:35:47,620 --> 00:35:54,500
time this is a story I'm getting ahead of myself and I'm gonna tell you um Keith and Dakota got into

453
00:35:54,500 --> 00:36:01,140
a fight and Elizabeth tried to intervene mom tried to intervene right to stop it he punched Dakota

454
00:36:01,140 --> 00:36:10,100
punched his mother in the face punched his own mother in the face the woman that tried to protect him

455
00:36:10,100 --> 00:36:15,540
and tried to be there for him kind of sounds familiar doesn't it his ex-wife Kim tried to protect him

456
00:36:15,540 --> 00:36:20,340
and he beat the hell out of her too and whenever that happened Keith pulled a knife on Dakota and hey

457
00:36:20,340 --> 00:36:25,620
thanks for standing up for the wife I guess but damn there's a whole lot going on here all right so

458
00:36:25,620 --> 00:36:29,940
remember whenever uh Kim was finally done for good good and dropped him off at the parents house

459
00:36:29,940 --> 00:36:37,220
how did Dakota act there I'm glad you asked again this is a great conversation we're having um after

460
00:36:37,220 --> 00:36:43,140
they drew she dropped him off of the parents house the parents quickly got tired of his shit he was

461
00:36:43,140 --> 00:36:49,940
unemployed he was unmotivated and he was downright unlikable they were tired of him at this point you're

462
00:36:49,940 --> 00:36:54,660
21 years old and you can't get your shit together like what is happening with you I mean you know

463
00:36:54,660 --> 00:37:00,420
failure to launch this is a failure to launch situation they built the airplane and that airplane

464
00:37:00,420 --> 00:37:07,700
just sat there and did nothing but take up space and on top of that he was a freaking drug addict okay

465
00:37:07,700 --> 00:37:11,620
and I'm not talking about just smoking a marijuana yes I said a marijuana because I think it's funny

466
00:37:11,620 --> 00:37:17,140
I'm not just talking about smoking a blunt okay I'm talking he's hitting lines of cocaine in the house

467
00:37:17,140 --> 00:37:22,260
and smoking crystal meth can you imagine you've already got someone who acts like a freaking psycho

468
00:37:22,260 --> 00:37:28,740
who might even be diagnosable as a personality disorder and then you add weed cocaine and crystal

469
00:37:28,740 --> 00:37:36,180
meth on top of that if that is not the biggest cluster you ever met up in your life right and then

470
00:37:36,180 --> 00:37:43,540
on top of that he becomes even more violent so violent so that at the time of this story okay

471
00:37:43,540 --> 00:37:51,540
he actually broke his father's shoulder in a fight in an altercation he's a big old boy

472
00:37:51,540 --> 00:37:57,620
six foot seven inches and he's fighting his own family beating the hell out of his wife wow

473
00:37:57,620 --> 00:38:01,380
what a guy so

474
00:38:01,380 --> 00:38:08,820
when Dakota when Dakota's parents have had enough of them they kick him out of the house

475
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now this I want you to understand is just days before we're about to have a mass murder situation

476
00:38:18,420 --> 00:38:23,620
on our hands and living Stimperish remember how I told you that this whole thing happens in 14 days

477
00:38:23,620 --> 00:38:30,260
well that means that summer and Dakota only talked for a few days right since the funeral when they met

478
00:38:30,260 --> 00:38:38,980
and now he's gotten kicked out of his house so let me tell you a little bit about summer a little bit

479
00:38:38,980 --> 00:38:44,260
more okay summer is a pretty girl and look pretty means nothing okay I've got I understand that

480
00:38:44,260 --> 00:38:50,740
but it just it just matters to me that she's a beautiful girl y'all and she has long brown hair and

481
00:38:50,740 --> 00:38:56,420
big brown eyes and she was a high school graduate from one of our local high schools and right here in

482
00:38:56,420 --> 00:39:01,060
denim springs Louisiana it's called denim springs high school but she graduated from high school

483
00:39:01,060 --> 00:39:06,020
and she was raised in church by her family her brothers were raised in church as well

484
00:39:06,020 --> 00:39:12,740
and she actually had big dreams of joining the national guard now I didn't mention that in my

485
00:39:12,740 --> 00:39:18,420
life because I was on limited time but I also think that might have been something that attracted her

486
00:39:18,420 --> 00:39:25,540
to Dakota was that he had you know wanted to join the military remember whenever he married Kim it's

487
00:39:25,540 --> 00:39:31,460
because he was gonna go off to the military so she really had big dreams she wanted to serve her country

488
00:39:31,460 --> 00:39:36,900
she wanted to be helpful to people and so she wanted to join the national guard now she had even

489
00:39:36,900 --> 00:39:43,940
spoken to a recruiter a local recruiter but she had changed her mind when she met Sean so she wrote

490
00:39:43,940 --> 00:39:48,100
she spoke to that recruiter in high school she was dating Sean remember and so she changed her

491
00:39:48,100 --> 00:39:54,340
mind I don't want to leave him and so that's whenever she you know moved in with Sean and she decided

492
00:39:54,340 --> 00:39:59,380
never mind I don't want to join but she still had it in the back of her mind because she had spoken

493
00:39:59,380 --> 00:40:05,780
to the recruiter continually even after she changed her mind she just wanted to try to build a life

494
00:40:05,780 --> 00:40:12,100
with Sean and her mom told me she was a tomboy but she could also be an absolute girly girl and I so

495
00:40:12,100 --> 00:40:19,220
identify with that because I mean I can be outside playing football looking like you know looking like

496
00:40:19,220 --> 00:40:24,580
like you know road hard and put a wet sweaty and nasty but I can also curl my hair and put on some

497
00:40:24,580 --> 00:40:31,620
some some makeup and clean up okay and that was summer and she was working full time whenever she

498
00:40:31,620 --> 00:40:37,060
met Dakota at uh for error which and and that's a place down the road from where I am about what

499
00:40:37,060 --> 00:40:42,420
30 minutes down the road and they build fire fire trucks and other firefighting apparatus it's a

500
00:40:42,420 --> 00:40:47,780
pretty big deal here and she worked in the detailed detailed department there and she would be so

501
00:40:47,780 --> 00:40:51,220
proud her mom told me she would call and say guess what I worked on today guess what I did today

502
00:40:51,220 --> 00:40:59,780
and her mama really was proud of her and she told me she said summer had a attitude and a smart

503
00:40:59,780 --> 00:41:05,140
mouth but she hated chaos and tension that was not something that she liked she was a sensitive girl

504
00:41:05,140 --> 00:41:11,700
so she would speak up but she certainly um you know didn't want to hurt people's feelings and

505
00:41:11,700 --> 00:41:18,740
envy ugly and she even had talked to her mom right before tragedy occurred that she wanted to start

506
00:41:18,740 --> 00:41:26,260
possibly a career in criminal justice I also did not mention this at the live now um Dakota

507
00:41:27,060 --> 00:41:31,700
and summer again it's baffling to me what they had in common other than they both I guess liked the

508
00:41:31,700 --> 00:41:38,740
military um or that he was a bad boy but I feel like summer really wanted to help people people

509
00:41:38,740 --> 00:41:44,900
who were considered downtrodden in her mind and I think that she felt sorry for Dakota she saw him

510
00:41:44,900 --> 00:41:50,660
as someone who um needed help in life he couldn't get his crap together and that maybe she could be

511
00:41:50,660 --> 00:41:54,580
that person to help him and get him on the right track like I said I think she was attracted to that

512
00:41:54,580 --> 00:42:03,700
bad boy image and you know just kind of evolved from there but one thing about Dakota that struck me

513
00:42:03,700 --> 00:42:09,060
okay is that and I know I'm not the only one I can't be the only one but Dakota reminds me of that

514
00:42:09,060 --> 00:42:16,660
guy we all know who always has a sad story for the new girl that he meets that he interests right

515
00:42:16,660 --> 00:42:23,220
like he's the broken man and that um everything is just he's been a victim of circumstance and they

516
00:42:23,220 --> 00:42:29,300
mean they use that broken man mentality to rope in a good girl right I come from a bad family oh I

517
00:42:29,300 --> 00:42:35,940
have an ex-wife and she's crazy and you know all of this I bet you a million bucks that everyone else

518
00:42:35,940 --> 00:42:43,620
was the villain in his story and he plays this helpless victim unable to save himself because of all

519
00:42:43,620 --> 00:42:48,580
of these mysterious roadblocks he keeps hitting in life and I'm thinking of someone so particular

520
00:42:48,580 --> 00:42:54,340
right now when I'm saying this because he reminds me of this person it's never his fault it's not

521
00:42:54,340 --> 00:42:59,300
that he's a bad guy it's not that he's an idiot that he makes bad decisions and that he uses people

522
00:42:59,300 --> 00:43:04,340
up for everything they're worth it's everyone else he's not the problem right it can't be him

523
00:43:04,340 --> 00:43:15,380
so um something else about Dakota that I want to bring up was that he had a grandmother okay her name

524
00:43:15,380 --> 00:43:24,100
was Peggy and this would be his mother's mom and she lived in Virginia and he actually went to go live

525
00:43:24,100 --> 00:43:31,860
with her for a bit because he felt like the grandma really loved him and y'all she did Peggy loved

526
00:43:31,860 --> 00:43:40,420
Dakota no for all of his problems she was that grandmother that just loved him but even mama Peggy

527
00:43:40,420 --> 00:43:48,180
sent his ass packing even after trying her damnedest to love him because he just was unruly he did what

528
00:43:48,180 --> 00:43:53,140
he wanted when he wanted he was not respectful he did not respect that someone else was paying for

529
00:43:53,140 --> 00:43:57,940
the roof over his head and buying groceries and cooking for him it doesn't matter you cannot love

530
00:43:57,940 --> 00:44:02,820
the idiot out of some people it just doesn't work it's like trying to love addiction out of somebody

531
00:44:02,820 --> 00:44:06,660
it doesn't work you can love them to the end of the earth but it won't solve the problem

532
00:44:07,460 --> 00:44:15,620
and so even grandmother wasn't willing to put up with his bullshit and you know

533
00:44:15,620 --> 00:44:24,740
I'm sorry but if you're own grandma can't can't love you who the hell can right and um Peggy even

534
00:44:24,740 --> 00:44:30,340
mentioned though that she said she thought Dakota was hearing voices at this time okay so I hope

535
00:44:30,340 --> 00:44:34,740
you're getting a really good picture of who this guy is now I'm gonna put you kind of on a timeline

536
00:44:34,740 --> 00:44:45,620
now okay we're gonna be eight days before mass murder occurs in Livingston Parish so I have these

537
00:44:45,620 --> 00:44:50,500
text messages and I actually I have pictures of them okay and I will put them online for you

538
00:44:50,500 --> 00:44:56,980
because I want you to see how wonderful summer was but this happened eight days before the

539
00:44:56,980 --> 00:45:02,340
we're gonna have mass murder so if you remember and like I said I know there's a lot of players here

540
00:45:02,340 --> 00:45:09,940
but summer's mother Rhonda would run into summer at Walmart and it's at the Walker Walker Walmart

541
00:45:09,940 --> 00:45:16,740
for people who are from here um and when she runs into her daughter she also runs into her ex-husband

542
00:45:16,740 --> 00:45:22,980
Billy as well as Dakota so Rhonda is shopping at Walmart runs into her daughter summer and her

543
00:45:22,980 --> 00:45:29,780
dad Billy and this guy Dakota and I asked Rhonda I said what was your first impression of Dakota

544
00:45:29,780 --> 00:45:34,500
and she said not much I didn't think much of him I just kind of thought who here's this scragally

545
00:45:34,500 --> 00:45:40,020
scragally dude I don't know who he is she was very unimpressed by him and didn't really spend a lot of

546
00:45:40,020 --> 00:45:45,940
time talking to him but they run into each other at this Walmart and Rhonda mentions off the cuff Mama

547
00:45:45,940 --> 00:45:52,740
Rhonda says honey my car broke down she was kind of upset about that and she said you know I don't

548
00:45:52,740 --> 00:45:58,100
know what I'm gonna do and in these messages I'll quote them for you they started texting afterwards

549
00:45:58,100 --> 00:46:04,820
and Rhonda tells summer well baby it's gonna be $1900 to fix my car it's gonna be about two months

550
00:46:04,820 --> 00:46:10,500
before I would be able to pay that off and that little girl who had a full-time job but making you

551
00:46:10,500 --> 00:46:15,140
know like minimum wage who didn't have a car of her own and was trying to make her way ask

552
00:46:15,140 --> 00:46:21,620
her mother do you need money Rhonda responds no baby girl you hold on to the money see about

553
00:46:21,620 --> 00:46:28,340
getting your license and get you a car and that's when summer responds I got it the money I mean

554
00:46:28,340 --> 00:46:34,180
I can't get a license right now anyway Rhonda says why and she says because of my work schedule

555
00:46:34,180 --> 00:46:39,540
so she was working so much that she didn't have time to go get her own license because she was trying

556
00:46:39,540 --> 00:46:45,060
to make money to build her way so Rhonda responds you keep saving your money and trying to get your

557
00:46:45,060 --> 00:46:51,220
stuff together I was just letting you know about my car and she's and that's whenever summer says

558
00:46:51,220 --> 00:46:58,500
well if you need it I got it mama and that's when Rhonda says I love you summer responds I love you

559
00:46:58,500 --> 00:47:04,260
too thank you for the advice and thank you for always helping me get through things we don't always

560
00:47:04,260 --> 00:47:11,140
talk but when I need you you have my back Rhonda responds mama will always have your back

561
00:47:11,140 --> 00:47:17,220
summer says I know sometimes I like to think I got it all figured out but it doesn't hurt my pride

562
00:47:17,220 --> 00:47:24,740
to say that I need you so thank you for being in my light in the dark Rhonda says life is all about

563
00:47:24,740 --> 00:47:30,580
learning I'm still trying to figure things out just know that I love you and I want what's best for

564
00:47:30,580 --> 00:47:36,660
you and I want you to be happy summer says I love you too and I know you do always have my back

565
00:47:36,660 --> 00:47:44,180
and best interests at heart mama's due and Rhonda responds yes I do I always have and I always will

566
00:47:44,980 --> 00:47:50,340
so to get this relationship between mother and daughter I thought that those texts were were pretty

567
00:47:50,340 --> 00:47:58,500
pointing so a few days go by three to be exact and we're now five days before we're gonna have mass

568
00:47:58,500 --> 00:48:04,900
murder in our parish in my parish this is when Dakota was kicked out of his house so what does he

569
00:48:04,900 --> 00:48:11,220
do as soon as his parents kick him out of the house he does what every abuser does he calls his ex-wife

570
00:48:11,220 --> 00:48:16,100
remember her the one he beat the hell out of and threatened and destroyed her car he calls her says

571
00:48:16,100 --> 00:48:19,700
Kim come get me please I've been kicked out of the house now I want to let you know real quick why

572
00:48:19,700 --> 00:48:23,140
was he kicked out of the house number one because he's a piece of shit like I've explained but they

573
00:48:23,140 --> 00:48:27,780
caught him doing cocaine in their house and they said you are not staying here with cocaine in

574
00:48:27,780 --> 00:48:34,100
her house we're drawing the line here okay get out so Kim told me I got in my car and I started

575
00:48:34,100 --> 00:48:39,380
driving to pick him up and then it just hit me I don't want to do this I don't want to go through

576
00:48:39,380 --> 00:48:44,420
this he's not my responsibility hell I'm divorced from him why am I going to get him so she makes

577
00:48:44,420 --> 00:48:53,620
the decision to lie to him and says I can't come get you my car is broken and she told me telling him

578
00:48:53,620 --> 00:48:59,140
that has affected her to this day because it does change the course of five people's lives

579
00:48:59,140 --> 00:49:03,860
right after that and I don't blame her and she doesn't hold me bearing on this it's just the way

580
00:49:03,860 --> 00:49:09,460
the story goes but she lies and says the car is broken and that is when summer the girl that he's

581
00:49:09,460 --> 00:49:16,820
talking to right now that he's known just for a few days summer texts her dad Billy and says dad

582
00:49:16,820 --> 00:49:22,580
Dakota needs a place to stay I think what I'm gonna have to do at this point is we're gonna go

583
00:49:22,580 --> 00:49:30,180
ahead and stop it but I hope right now you understand who Dakota Terrio is I hope you understand

584
00:49:30,180 --> 00:49:36,180
what kind of person summer earnest is and I hope you're understanding the dynamic of ill behavior

585
00:49:36,180 --> 00:49:42,820
up into this point because I'm telling you I've got stuff that's about to happen that will blow

586
00:49:42,820 --> 00:49:48,500
your ever loving mind okay so hang in there I'm not gonna rush it the details matter in this one

587
00:49:48,500 --> 00:49:54,820
and I got a whole bunch coming your way so hang in there remember but by the way we have video people

588
00:49:54,820 --> 00:49:59,780
keep messaging me hey do you want to watch um I want to watch you podcast where can I watch you join

589
00:49:59,780 --> 00:50:06,420
patron that's how you do it you can pick your tear and you can watch me record I've got extras that

590
00:50:06,420 --> 00:50:12,100
I put on their bonus episodes come in your way and also like some crime scene type stuff I'm

591
00:50:12,100 --> 00:50:16,580
gonna put on there that I'm not I can't put on Facebook lots of things it's just ramping up and I'm

592
00:50:16,580 --> 00:50:21,540
getting there and I'm telling you it's good stuff so you can also talk to me directly it's me it is

593
00:50:21,540 --> 00:50:27,060
not a team of people that's why I'm half crazy okay but you can speak to me directly you can hey

594
00:50:27,060 --> 00:50:32,820
give me suggestions for cases if there's one you want me to to follow join patron if you can if you

595
00:50:32,820 --> 00:50:37,860
can no worries no problem follow me on Facebook okay but that's the answer if you want to watch you

596
00:50:37,860 --> 00:50:44,020
get on patron all right so hang in there I'm gonna I've got so much more to tell you about Dakota

597
00:50:44,020 --> 00:50:48,660
but I'm just gonna warn you Yang gonna like him because he's about as pleasant as a itchy butthole

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