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Welcome to Unspeakable, a true crime podcast where I tell
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stories of real crimes with real victims, whose cases are
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so shocking that many are left wondering how is this
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even real? I use my experiences in law enforcement corrections,
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and combined with my years as a criminal justice educator,
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dig deep into complex cases of evil acts, some so
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evil many feel they are unspeakable. Warning. Unspeakable as intended
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for mature audiences. If you are easily offended, then I'm
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not your girl. Listening discretion is advised. Hey, y'all, it's
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kJ here, back for another episode of Unspeakable. And Guys,
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I really wish I was in front of you literally
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and you are sitting with me right now, and you
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could see the absolute joy on my face because this
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week I did something that I guess I never really
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imagined would come true or would happen, and that I
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guess if you're a true crime lover and you've always
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been interested invested in the in the subject of true crime,
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that maybe you would be You're gonna be excited for
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me too, I think, right, because we're all friends here,
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but it's gonna senter around sexual predators. Okay, Now, something
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everything that we should all be concerned about. This is
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an issue that everyone should worry about, specifically when it
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comes to kids, because even if you don't have your kids,
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guys predators, they'll they'll pick on anybody. They've got predators
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that prefer children, Predators that prefer old people, Predators that prefer,
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you know, crimes of opportunity when they can just snatch somebody.
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This affects everyone. You have daughters, you have sons, you
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have nephews and cousins, and so it always matters. I mean, hell,
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this is why in prison, even the damn inmates in
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prison who may have murdered someone, don't like sexual predators
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because it affects everybody. And I had the opportunity of
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a lifetime to sit down with the one and only
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Chris Hansen and discuss this very issue recently, which I'm
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going to share with you today, and you're going to
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get to hear every bit of it. Now. Before I
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start playing it though, I want to just point out
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that it's bad enough that we have adults that are
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preyed on by opportunists, but when it comes to children,
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the thought and the grooming that is involved in what
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these predators do is simply unconscionable. It's legitimately disturbing on
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a level that I think most of us can't even
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identify with our brains, won't even let it go there.
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And this is why I've always been intrigued by the
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process of catching predators, diving into quote unquote their world
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and observing what they do as they do it. And
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this has always been the driving force behind the reason
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that I loved watching shows like to Catch a Predator.
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That's what was big when I was younger and really
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made you go, oh my god, this is real. How
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is this happening? People really do this? It was unbelievable. Well,
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Chris Hansen became a household name under this very premise,
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and he's somebody that I admire so much. He's dedicated
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majority of his professional life catching these very people that
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we fear, but they walk amongst us every single day.
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And I absolutely loved, and I know a lot of
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people do because it was so famous, But loved watching
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him tell these men to have a seat when he
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would walk out and they were unsuspecting. Oh my god,
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these men would show up for what they thought was
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going to be an uninterrupted fun. I guess if that's
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what we're gonna call it with a young teen, and
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then to watch them squirm under his very direct questioning.
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It's just something that I just love watching people be
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held accountable almost instantaneously for the evil that they had
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shown up to do. And then of course they lie
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and they deflect, and the best part is that they're
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only met with the very direct quotes from the conversations
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that they were having with these kids, or who they
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thought were kids. They thought they were holding these conversations
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with minor children, but obviously was actually an adult decoy
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on the other end of the internet, an adult pretending
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to be a kid online, and these unconscionable conversations with
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kids and their explicit photos of their adult bodies that
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they had shared and sent these children just getting thrown
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back in their face. It's pure magic to watch it happen.
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Of course, you know, once the jig is up, they
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always have some sort of excuse or victim blaming that's
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gonna follow, which I can't tell you. The anger that
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just it burns a fire in me that an adult
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could turn around and then say that it was somehow
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the child's fault, that what was happening you know, the
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kid led them to where they are today that they're
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blaming a teen that presumptively, if this was a real teen,
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is presumptively one with little to no parenting or guidance,
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or this is a kid that maybe has a curiosity
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about sex that's never been spoken about and they haven't
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been taught about the dangers. And that's the reality. You
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would think that everyone's been taught, and they haven't. I've
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been in schools with teenagers a long time, seventeen years,
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and they have not been taught the things that they
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need to know. I'm telling you all the while, a
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grown ass adult, a forty fifty year old man. And
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I'm saying men, not because there aren't female predators. There
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absolutely are, but majority of the time they're male offenders
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that we see this happen to on these shows, or
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not happened to that cause this to happen to them.
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But they're grown men that are now sheepish all of
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a sudden want to turn around and oh, I wasn't
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going to do anything. I just you know, I don't
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know the guys. I cannot relate with you. I just can't.
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You got in your vehicle after you sent explicit photos
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to a child, a kid, someone's kid. And a lot
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of times these guys their parents themselves, they have children
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of their own, so it's okay for them to go
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out and abuse someone else's kid. But they're a dad,
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I'm a parent. Oh, this is not something I would
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normally do. Really, it isn't really because you drove here.
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Sometimes they drove states away, states away to come defile
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a child. It's just give me a break, that is
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all I can say. Give me a break. Oh, I
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shouldn't have done this. This is a one time thing. No,
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it's not. No, it's not. And these predators, y'all, they
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come from all walks of life, from school employees to
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Sonic workers to delivery people. By the way, I'm not
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but I'm not calling out Sonic specifically. I'm just given
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an example. I'm not saying that these people actually work there,
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but they could at restaurants, okay, all lusting for our children.
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They walk around in stores and their eyes. You know,
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you can't stop what people see, but it makes you
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just wonder when you're walking through Walmart with your kids,
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and are they watching your child, your baby? Are they
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watching them with a desire for my child, for my baby.
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You look at that as a sex object. The fuck
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is wrong with you. And so now parenting has become
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so difficult in this age of technology. It's hard for
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all of us. If you're a teenager that's listening to
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this guys, you gotta be smart. The internet is not
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the place to be meeting people. These guys will, they'll
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come to you, and they don't strike you as this
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creeper that jumps out of the bushes. They look like
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everyday people because they are every day people, and they're
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lusting after these kids online, clearly having been told multiple
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times during these sting operations. Multiple times they have been
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told the underage status of this decoy, saying they're fourteen,
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multiple times, and the predators still take debate every single time.
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These people are willing to pull up to apartment complexes,
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call these kids, ask them where to park, ask them
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where do I go, knowing the entire time they are
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going to take someone's child and rape. I mean, I
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look at it as a rape. You know, it's a ray,
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it's a child. They cannot consent, and you know that
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these people know that, and they still do it. It's unbelievable.
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But the reality is that this has been a successful
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method of catching creditors for over twenty years, for Chris Hansen.
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Twenty years. That's the entire lifespan of a kid to
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an adult, you know, a whole generation. And we're still
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catching them here in twenty twenty five by doing these
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sting operations. And that should tell you something. They are
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not going to stop. This will not stop. We have
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got to be proactive. We have to remain proactive, and
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we as a society have got to remain pissed off.
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These kids are our kids. They're not mine, they're not yours,
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they're not your neighbor's daughter, They're our kids. It takes
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a village, it takes all of us. And this is
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just one snippet, one tiny piece of what it takes
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to protect our kids. And although this has been a
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form of entertainment, okay, catching those and by entertainment, I
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don't mean the thought of abusing a child. I mean
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catching those who think they are slick and they think
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that they're doing this under the cloak of the internet. Okay,
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there remains the reality of the fact that they absolutely,
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one hundred percent would have followed through with the sex
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act with the child. Had these not been sting operations,
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and you cannot let that go. Sometimes people go, oh, well,
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you know, thank god they didn't actually get to go
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through with anything because it was a sting. Yeah, but
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they would have, they would have. You know, it's just
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mind blowing. Some of these guys show up at these
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sting operations, Oh, I'm going to do a thing, and
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then when they empty their pockets when they arrest them,
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they've got condoms, they've got lubricant. You go in their
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car and they've got all sorts of stuff and they
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want to do this to your kid. They I mean,
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don't sit on this. Do don't go man, that's terrible.
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This happens to other people because it happens to us,
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me and you, and something I wanted to point out,
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and I am going to play the interview you, but
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I want to point this out. There's been a lot
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of study about this behavior, and the truth is that
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these people may be sad or they may be sorry
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when they get caught. Okay, in the moment when you're
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watching them, Oh god, I shouldn't have done this. One guy, Yeah,
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one guy in these episodes. My mom's gonna see this. Yeah,
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your mom's gonna see this. She sure is. And you're
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upset because people are gonna find out who you really are.
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You're about to disappoint everyone in your life and they
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should be disappointed in you. How dare you? But the studies,
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even though these people get sad and they're sorry when
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they get caught, the long term stats are not as
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convincing as their sob stories. And I want you to
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hear me on this. I looked at two different studies.
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I didn't go in depth and pull a whole bunch
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of them because this is not you know, this isn't
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a college lecture, but I do want to tell you this.
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One of them that I looked at said they're finding
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showed forty two percent of the offenders that they've followed
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after release were reconvicted for sexual crimes, violent crimes, or both.
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So that should tell you that these guys are very
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capable of violence alongside of being an absolute pervert. That
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is scary to me. Another one I looked at they
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followed two hundred and fifty one sex offenders, which to
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me is just mind blowing that we can have two
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hundred and fifty one sex offenders. But hell, if you
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go search sex offenders in your area, guys and every
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sheriff's department a nationwide there should have a place where
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you can go search and see the sex offenders in
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your areas. Matter of fact, I want to challenge you
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go to your local sheriff's office website wherever you live.
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For example, if you live near me Livingston Parashriff's office,
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I believe it's dot org. But you go to Livingston
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Para Sheriff's Office and then there's a place on there
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that says sex offenders. Click on that you can put
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your home address in and then click search and it'll
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show you all the sex offenders around you. Yes, this
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is an absolute true story. Yesterday, from the date that
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I am filming this, my husband and I we had
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the kids in the car. We were heading down to
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go somewhere and I saw this guy walking down the
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road right outside of my neighborhood by the way, and
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I turned around and I looked at him and I
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said sex offender. I told my husband, I said that
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is a sex offender, and he kind of looked at
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me like Okay, I said, no, I'm telling you. And
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the reason I know is because I teach this every
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single year, and I know his face like the back
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of my hand. And about five years ago, a friend
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of mine in my neighborhood messaged me while she was
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in a local walmart right next to where we live,
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and she said, this guy seems to be following my son.
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She said, I'm like noticing it. It's weird. And I said, well,
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send me a picture. She sent me a picture of him.
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I said, oh, my god, that's him. He stands out
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like a sore thumb because he has bright red hair
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and a bright red mustache. They're everywhere. They are everywhere.
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They are walking in your neighborhoods, they're walking their dogs.
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Y'all pay attention, be proactive. Talk to your kids about it.
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Show them where they live, of show them, tell them
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don't ever go near this house. But they followed. In
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this study, two hundred and fifty one sex offenders, one